FRK Newbie to Anal

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  1. J-Ace24

    J-Ace24 double down.

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    So the other night the wifey and I were having sex where we would move all around the bed and change positions a lot. A couple of times I almost entered the rear and eventually she said to just put it in. I know she definitely enjoyed it especially since she can't seem to stop talking about it, but I have mixed feelings. For one, we didn't have any lube and I didn't want to hurt her. Second, she's had bad experiences in the past with it from way before me so I was kinda hesitant. We do plan on getting lube and I think it will feel better for me with it. Will it be a lot better with lube? Also should I be wearing a condom?
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Lube up. wear a condom. there are germs (even i sa poop free anus that has been cleaned) that can cause nasty UTIs.
     
  3. Chabaz

    Chabaz OT Supporter

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    She said put it in! What the hell are you waiting for?
     
  4. Bubba Atlantis

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    and you are?



    To OP: Let her control it first off. Having the girl on top the first time you do anal tends to work well because the squat position opens the anal sphinxter. In addition, it allows her to have the control over the amount she is comfortable putting in. Once both of you get more comfortable with the experience maybe switch it up. However, it seems that you two have done well thus far. However, as PE stated, be clean. You do not want her to have a bad experience as in her past, so you want to be as thorough as possible.
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    Hmmm now where is Sam's thread on Anal? Ooooh Librarian Rouge!! Come help!
     
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    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    Do not take the lube for granted. it will make things easier, but at times can also increase discomfort. The wife and I have tried several before we found one that she was happy using. Also, lube is not a free pass to go crazy, like Rouge said, let her control it. Anal can be a lot of fun if done properly.
     
  9. razi

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    no lube can be fun too. My ex preferred it raw.
     
  10. Moloko

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    I was a hard convert, but in the end lube makes it much better. Lube yourself, and her (around the gargoyle, and inside a bit). Best position we've found is for both of you to lay down on your sides, "spooning" if you will. This is the most comfortable way for my girl, at least, to get started. After that positions vary, but almost always it ends up being doggy with her wanting it harder than I could possibly give without passing out and having a heart attack.
     
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