hello all. i know i am brand spanking new, wet behind the ears, yadda yadda. i was on OT back before the new logo and the ads. i got married, had a kid, divorced, and didn't maintain my affair with OT. now i am back to feed my internet hunger. i also realize i am without av. i just recieved a verbal no contact order over the phone, to not contact my live in girlfriend of 2 years. i am tdy. i have custody of my 3 year old who also lives with said girlfriend and i. his mom lives just down the road. she leaves on the 17th for 7 level school and will not be around to watch my kid while i deal with this. if i am at our house and she shows up, can she not come in, or do i have to leave? vice versa if she is there can i not go in or does she have to leave? my head is spinning with what if's. gf's problem originated with our very recent break up. now she is being as vengeful as possible. cliffs: "new" guy gets no contact order, has no clue what to do.