I've been seeing this girl for about two weeks now. She's in my Creative Writing class and we gots to talking and she is friggin amazing. We have everything in common, she's beautiful, and she digs me (great combination). Things with her are really different, because normally I am extremely shy, insecure, low self-image...but with her, pretty much the entire time I've been confident, talkative, outgoing, and I actually picked up on the fact that she likes me (which I am normally pretty oblivious to). Anyhow, I drove her home the other night after we went to the bar with her friends. Before she got out of the car, we hugged, and I just moved in for the kiss (which was completely spontaneous, another rarity), and so we made out. The thing that bothered me is the fact that I didn't get an erection. I enjoyed making out, but it's like, I really didn't *feel* a lot. This worries me. I don't know what it is. I have been pretty down lately (despite seeing this girl), I really haven't been masturbating much at all, and it just seems like I've had a lower sex drive than normal (which also worries me, especially seeing this girl). Another thing is, I don't think about sex with her a lot, because it's like...I don't want to defile her in my mind, if that makes any sense. I respect her a lot and I really want to this to go right without just focusing on sex. But at the same time, I'm worried that I'm not fantasizing about her. To put things into perspective, I'm 24, she's 22. I don't know what's going on or what's wrong. Agh. Any advice would be appreciated.