so i've been broken up with the first chick i "loved" or whatever you want to call it for about a year (we dated a year and is my longest relationship to date). i dated another chick for around 2 months, and another after that for about 3-4 months. yet with both of those chicks i didnt feel overly connected, but i was feeling more connected with the last girl than the first. is that normal/abnormal? if so why? to clarify; i'm asking is it normal to not feel connected with people even though you moved on from a relationship you invested a lot of yourself into after a year?