Hey Started dating this new girl recently. She seems pretty cool and we get along pretty well....anyway...we are both pretty fresh out of longer relationships, me a lot longer relationship then her. We have hung a few times and had sex one night when I was pretty drunk at my place. It was fun. She got off. Some really good sex. Anyway. Got to talking a little later on and she said she was wanting to take things a little slower (aka no sex) and that's ok with me but I kinda get some mixed signals at times. I tend to be the one doing all of the instigating as far as asking her to go out and do things. Not all of it but the large majority. I tend to be the type to want to hang out a lot with people I'm interested in them. She will usually text me a couple of times a day without me making the effort but as far as hanging out she's kinda left it at my feet. I usually tend to go after the chicks that are more into me because it makes it easy. If I want to hang I do if not then I don't so this is a different beast. I'm just not sure if she's just fucking another guy or her ex and doesn't want to feel like a whore or just still has feelings for the ex or whatever. I don't see any real reason why she wouldn't be more into things on several levels. Maybe I'm wasting my time lol. Maybe I'm just really uninformed so inform me OT.