Little bit of a backstory involved.. So there's this girl I somewhat grew up with that lives down the street from my Aunt's/Uncle's house. They tend to throw parties/gatherings all the time and invited neighbors as well as family and with her being the same age as my cousin and I we naturally ended up hanging out at these things. I had a crush on her growing up but never let on about it. We lost touch in late high-school/college. In early January I went home for my aforementioned cousin's wedding and she was there. We chatted for quite a while and she mentioned she was coming down to NYC (which is where I live/work now, she's still away at grad school). I told her to get in touch with me when she made it down and she did... we ended up going out a few nights and hooked up.. Since that weekend she started non-stop texting me even when I didn't respond. She sent me a package for my birthday filled with candy and inside-joke related items. She has continued to talk to me all the time and talks about coming back down to the city. She's already decided to book a trip in May and just informed me she'll be heading down this weekend with a friend... The problem is I get a sense of expectation from her, and I'm not sure exactly what she expects... we had fun when she was here but I wasn't looking for anything to really come of it, especially considering she lives a good 7 hours away. I'm also recently out of a somewhat LTR and have been dating casually and really want to stay uncommitted being the first time I've really been single in almost 6 years. I guess I'm just not sure how to handle the situation.. am I just overthinking this? Making something out of nothing? Should I talk to her about it before she comes and if so how do I even go about bringing it up without having any idea what her expectations/thoughts are? I guess what makes it weird for me is that our families are friends and see each other semi-frequently. I feel like if it were any other girl it wouldn't be nearly as big of a deal to me.. Cliffs: Girl I grew up with visited, we hooked up, she lives far, seems to be sending signals she expects something, I'm not interested in anything more, plans to visit again, just informed me she's visiting this weekend, don't know how to handle it.