Ok so I found an email conversation between my g/f of almost 5 years and a co-worker of hers. She has my email pw and I have hers so its not like I keylogged to get in or anything. Anyways here is a brief synopsis of what was going down. Guy asked if my gf wanted to have a 'rendezvous' and nobody had to know about it. Gf replies that she would like to go with guy to bahamas. I confronted her about it, she claims to not even know what a rendezvous is, she also doesn't think she did anything wrong. basically the situation festers, we get to a point where I tell her that this convo she had with a guy friend at work is unacceptable, she admits that she was 'leading him on'. Would OT consider this cheating? This bum is 30 (we are both 23) and is a meth head.