Or maybe it is. I don't know. I was dumped yesterday morning. After 3.5 years. Out of nowhere. I'm in shock... or delusional... or in denial... but it seems like it didn't even happen. When she told me, I stared at the wall for about an hour, and then got in bed for 4-5 hours, haven't eaten anything but a yogurt since. It feels like she'll just call me or come over (this isn't a wish)... it FEELS like she'll come over and it'll be like it never happened. Like it was a bad dream. Has anyone else been like this? Taken DAYS to realize what the hell has happened? I don't even feel like I was dumped. I love her more than anything, but I haven't felt any emotion.