So after screwing it up with those two girls I went out... A bit of backstory... ...first girl I kissed on the first date and apparently got freaked out despite the fact that she was already planning the second date by the end of our first date and before I "asked" her to kiss her... ...i went out with another girl already knowing what I did wrong on my first one, and didn't even go for the kiss. This really sucked as the next few days she told me she was dating somebody and she didn't know what I wanted with her, either to be friends or something else... So clearly, this is not just something that happened. I am doing something wrong here. Is it my approach? It couldn't be my actual performance as in both ocassions I had them very well entertained. Need some help here.