I met this girl and we've gone out a few times and I like her more than any female on the planet. And then she writes me this. I like you, you're a great guy, but I can't see us as being any more than friends. And it's nothing about you, you're cute, I'm just not feeling anything in the whole attraction range for some reason. I don't exactly know why, but I'm having a hard time being attracted to anyone right now, which is part of the reason I decided to start dating in the first place, to maybe find someone that I could be attracted to. I'm beginning to think that I'm just frigid or something, I'm not sure. But I need to work some things out, so I'm not so sure it's a good idea for you to continue taking me out and buying everything because it's just not fair. If you want to hang out, I'm cool with that, but I just don't want you to think there's more to this than there is. Did I fuck up and am just too ugly to be attracted to or is it really something she needs to sort out and I still have a chance? Either way I feel like total utter shit.