Allright, here's the thing, after my wife and I split up, (or basically she left me for someone else) I have had a problem talking to women. Whether it's at a bar or casually somewhere else. I know what I want to say, but I just can't get it to come out of my mouth. I freeze. Then I end up walking away feeling as I have made a fool of myself. I don't know what else I do, and I can't talk to any of my friends about it without getting laughed at relentlessly. I really don't know what else to do. So I am asking for your help here.