ok. so i made this thread last week. http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2410052 so she never really talked to me about her ex, or used me as an emotional tampon, which is good. we had been spending alot of time together, and just general hanging out like friends. then she started goofing around a little more, like playfully hitting me with a pillow, putting her legs on me, etc (also, i noticed her watching me while we were watching a movie). I took those as signs that she was into me, but as i said before, i dont really have much game, so i didnt make a move (what move should i have made?). now tonight she came over again, and same old as the past couple days, legs on me (this time i kinda made a move because i was touching her legs, not really in an overtly sexual way, but i made sure to make contact. ), practically begging me to stay up and watch a movie with her. she asked if i had a dvd player in my room. we end up starting up the movie in my room, in my bed. we were talking about something and i saw she was staring at me, so i held her gaze, then pretty much at the same time, we both moved in for the kiss. we made out for a while, and i could tell she wanted to sex me up. but she was uneasy about it, because she "...was on the rebound". I said thats fine. So we end up having some sex, and now i dont really know what she wants (relationship, other?) i figure i will probably just talk with her one of the next times she comes over about where we stand. i feel kinda confused, and sorta dirty or something like that.