a friend of mine had a gf they dated for over a year then they broke up and now shes dating another guy my friend has a new gf but it seems like things are going nowhere they fight about the stupidest things and recently my friend and his ex girlfriend have been talking and hes considering going back to her because he feels like with his current gf things arent going anywhere their just going in circles what should he do?
He should do what he feels is right. If he likes the ex, and feels that she would fit into his life now then cool. Regardless if he goes for the ex or not, is it YOU that feels like things are going nowhere with the current girl, or does HE feel like that? If its him, then he should end it... if thats what he thinks is best. If its you that feels like that, he shouldnt let friends tell him how his relationships are working out.
we both feel taht sometimes things arent going anywhere but my friend to this girl is the most perfect thing shes even talking about marriage but my friend doesnt feel the same
It doesn't matter what you think. That was the point I was making there. He needs to make up his own mind about what he wants. And seriously, dudes are right about the usefulness of the period. It is hard to understand what you are saying is all.
Ah okay. You understood what I was getting at though, right? Anywho, he simply needs to decide if the current girl is right for him, and if not break it off. No point to stretch it out and hurt her because she thinks there is more to the relationship than there really is. As for the ex, there is no way i could give any advice about that without knowing why it had ended in the first place.
You've been here long enough to know my answer Seriously though, since it is your friend it's the kind of thing he'll obviously have to find out on his own. I'm sure he'll get back with her and they'll probably fail....My advice to you as his friend to give to him? Tell him to make sure if he does go back with her to get out if it's not what he hoped. No sense beating a dead horse.