So a girl whose 18 has a one night stand with a stranger in his early 20's (I'm 24, think 20 or 21). The guy finds out what her number is and texts her the next day. They end up fucking a few more times (They don't go on dates she is now a booty call only spending a few hours together) and this is where we are in the story. The girl thinks that there could be something in this because he is spending time with her. My opinion is that she gave it up the first night, this guy isn't in very good shape or particularly attractive, no good job, and figures that this is an easy lay so he hangs out with her. He can't really do better because she's pretty good looking, big boobs, etc... what most 20ish guys want. This girl is in my extended family and I want to tell her what is on a guys mind when they are in this situation but I don't want to freak her out. There also might be guys that really do want to get to know the girls that fuck strangers but I've never seen it. She has a history of having sex with people either right when she meets them or very soon after. She has never had any serious relationships or even something lasting longer than a few weeks. From what I hear she has slept with her best friends boyfriend, among other guys in relationships. She comes from a very stable family that never was too controlling but obviously something went wrong. None of their other 3 children were like this. The parents never freaked out when they had sex as teenagers but they all did (do) it in relationships. Doesn't help that her friends are all idiots and terrible influences. She doesn't drink much but when she does this always happens. She says that she just wants a boyfriend and that she hates it when she drinks and does these things. I believe her that she kind of loses control when she drinks. Her dad had a drinking problem as well but did the right thing and quit before he had kids. Of course she's full of shit in that she's putting herself in these positions but she's family and I still want to give her some advice in the least pushy way. I want to tell her that she's naive for wanting something meaningful when she gives it up so easily. That guys that age are only contacting her after because it's easy tail for them. They leave when they are bored and she is left wondering why. I mean she's got a good head on her shoulders apart from sex and relationships. She does well in school, has a steady job, etc... Thanks for the advice.