I had a one night stand recently with a curvy and beautiful woman, a few years older than myself. She was not inhibited, or shy in any way, she was loud and comfortable with her body, and she knew what worked for her, and what worked for me.. The thing is, I think she's led me down the dark path of wanting a woman to control me more, because what she did really really turned me on, but she was still in enough control to reach her goal before she let me reach mine! Anything you have experienced like this change your mind about sex?? Or has anything ever made you want to explore something new and different that you hadn't thought about before?