How do you get through those awful days? Today is definitely one of those days I wonder how I crawled out of bed. My life seems to be in shambles, regardless of how I try to keep things together. My personal life is a mess to say the least. My job is going through numerous changes and I am one of the few in charge of making these changes happen and motivate others to go along with the changes. I try not to be a negative person, as that is not my personality, but it seems all I am is negative lately. It seems I am so focused on my ailing relationship and motivating my co-workers I have neglected to take care of myself and do not remember how.