The girl i really fancy is going away at the end of this month, for 4 weeks... I have worked at the same place as her for about 5 weeks, but only 'with' her a few times during that period... The other night just the two of us closed up work. I feel we got much closer, as I got to know lots about her, that i dont know whether she would tell most people she works with. It was sort of stuff that implied she wanted to have a boyfriend..."i get so bored and lonely at home all by myself.." and " what do you do during the days?? are they as boring as mine?" I am already in a really comfortable working relationship with her, and i think she is into me as well (although i doubt as much as i am into her). What do you think i should do? - Try and set up a date with her before she goes away, and try and move to the next stage? or... - keep friendly contact and wait for her to get back for me to make my move. My dilemma is this: If i leave it until after she gets back, i will lose the really comfotable and open relationship that i feel came out the last time we worked together (2 nights ago). And then i will have to attempt to rignite the sparks, if you will. But, if i ask her out before, and all goes well, will she lose interest over the 4 weeks that we are apart, and come back asking herself if she really wanted to come back to a relationship. I cant stop thinking about her. Im losing sleep over just trying to think of ways to set up a date with her. Things are going well, but I feel i might be overthinking things too much and in too much of a hurry to move things along because i see this deadline that i just outlined. I just don't want to miss out on this opportunity. Damn her faimly for organising this trip!!