Opinion on Checking out...

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  1. *RARA*

    *RARA* New Member

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    Is it okay to check out another girl/guy out while in a relationship?


    Wrong, simply human nature?... opinions please!
     
  2. Thelonius

    Thelonius Active Member

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    My uncle always says, it doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home. I generally agree.
     
  3. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    of course it's ok to look.

    Now if she is trying to have a meaningful conversation with you and you are STARING at the hot chick that walked in, then you're fucked.
     
  4. LudaMan

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    I can't help but look sometimes. It's natural. I try to keep it to just a glance though :o
     
  5. BoomBoomBoy

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    Your uncle is a wise man.
     
  6. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    It's ok if he is not doing it while he is with me, I really don't like when a guy turns his head when I am standing there:hsugh: However, I do usually point out women goodies for bfs to look, that is ok:mamoru:
     
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  8. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    You can look, as long as you don't touch. That's my motto anyway.
     
  9. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :rofl::rofl::rofl: love this. I agree.
     
  10. 21jump

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    I generally agree as well.
     
  11. Toxica

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    I know you can control yourself and not look. I've tried it in a relationship before and was able to do it for a long while (even when he wasn't around). But I don't care if he looks as long as he's not around me when he does it. It's disrespectful to check someone out when you are hanging with your partner.
     
  12. antihero

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    girls are not like guys. You try and not look when a famous rich handsome tall guy walks into the room. Guys don't give a shit about famous, rich, or tall, so every time a hot girl walks into the room its the same thing for us. That being said, there is sneaking a peak and outright gawking. Its very rude to do it completely indiscreetly, but you can't blame a guy for glancing.
     
  13. vodkacollins

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    i dont care if he does it, and i dont care if he does it when im with him. im sure i do it when he is around.
     
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    I've gone to strip clubs with my gf. I don't think she cares. :rofl:
     
  15. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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  16. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Window shopping only.
     
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    themolsen New Member

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    no harm in looking, but be respectful to your SO about it
     
  18. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    yes, but don't stare
     
  19. blackbirdbeatle

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    Pretty easy question and most all agrees on what to do. Look but don't touch. If you are with your girlfriend then be respectful to her and don't ogle the other lady in front of her. In fact, don't ogle at all, you come off creepy.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Your boyfriend has no clue you went on a date and slept with that guy, does he?
     
  21. sportsjunkie

    sportsjunkie OT Supporter

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    of course it's ok. I look and I am sure my bf looks. hell, he'll even point out something he likes :rofl: but we know that we have each other and love one another very much. We are confident with who we are and we would be fooling ourselves if we thought the other didn't check out the opposite sex. It's human nature really.
     
  22. maybeitsyou

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    i guess in her mind, a break is a break up for her but still keep him labeled as her bf while she goes out and about.
     

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