I'll just make this whole post cliffs for your convenience. Rewind 2 years ago. I start a new job and quickly befriend one of the guys I work with. We hang out and party every weekend and we form a pretty close-knit group of friends with some other people we work with and my current SO. Fast forward to a few months ago. He puts together a trip to CA as like an end-of-summer blast. Me, him, my SO, and one of our closest girl friends decide it's a good idea but we're not sure how we're going to pay for it. But we decide we'll try to figure it out and he gets everybody's tickets online. About 2 weeks before the trip, my parent's house sells, and I'm forced to move out and I decide to transfer schools to where my SO goes and move out with her. Selling the house, transferring schools, and finding a place to live all went down in about 1 week. I already had very little money to begin with and now no job in my new city. We panic and try to find a way to pay for the trip, and the general agreement is that we were gonna pay him with our student loan refunds. We quickly find out that we can't afford the trip and decide to cut our losses and pay for the tickets because they're non-refundable. So 3 days before the trip we drop out of the trip. So he gets suspicious and thinks we're parting from the $300 a little too easily and suspects we won't pay, so he holds our concert tickets (scheduled for after the CA trip) hostage and asks that we pay half. I said fuck you, I told you we would pay you as soon as our refunds get in. He tells me and my SO to our faces that he doesn't trust us that we will. We end up paying him, but my loan gets fucked up and I have to wait ~2 months for the refund to process. We don't talk to him the whole time and he gets pussyhurt because we didn't keep him up to date. Fast forward to a couple days ago and we give him the rest of the money and I say "fuck it, let's put it behind us. Shit will never be the same, but there's no reason we can't be civil and hang out when all our friends are hanging out." and he sends us a short novel via e-mail about how he still thinks he was right for doing what he did and he's a prick about it. So... what do you do here? I don't even give a shit about the money anymore, the only real issue now is that he's a faggot and said he doesn't trust me or my SO with a measly $300. That's my opinion though. Thoughts? Sorry this post got so long.