Ok..basically me and my girlfriend broke up about 3 months ago...but it wasnt at all like we broke up. We talked to eachother everyday...sometimes she woudl come down and spend the night...we kissed held hands cuddled and the whole bunch. Sometimes she would sort of flip out and say we needed to stop because it wasnt fair to me ect ect and i was ok with it. Eventually though we would end up kissing or something. I kinda just figured she needed a break...before we got together she had gotten out of a 3 year relationship and neither of us was looking for anything serious but it turned out that way. I fell in love with her..and i told her but she never told me back which i was ok with because i dont expect 2 people to fall in love with eachother at the same time. After about 6 months we started arguing alot..just over stupid shit but always got over it and it was never anything serious but then she decided to "break up" with me. Well just last week we went to a concert together...after we had had a long talk about how there would be no more kissing ect...but at the concert she was still all cuddly with me, this was on a wed and then apperently on friday she went over to some guys house..made out ..nothing more really. She told me all this and i basically said I never wanted to talk to her again ..she left for orlando with fam for a week on saturday...and eventually she texted me with "if it makes u feel any better i'm not going to see rick anymore" so now we're talking again i guess. I just cant bring myself to not talk to her..but just tonight she was like it will get easier with time you'll find someone ect..which really breaks my heart. My question is...if i ever have a chance of us being together do i need to stay away. She flipped out bigtime when i said i didnt want to talk to her anymore..thought it was shitty whatever..but i just dont know what to do. I'm afraid if i dont at least talk to her being her hard headed self she wont try to talk to me either and will move on or something. But of course everyone says not to be friends with your ex. What should I do?