I have a friend who insists that piercers tell you to take out a PA during sex.. because its painful for the male.. i asked why she thought so and got an answer i didnt really want to hear, her ex had to take his out before they had sex. (didnt want to hear it because Im really into this girl. doesnt this defeat the whole purpose of the piercing?? which i thought to be enhancing the sexual experience? i know its also for looks but how many people drop their drawers infront of anyone they dont even plan on having sex with) I ask because i plan on getting a ladder done and she says that i would need to remove it if we had sex.