So I've been with my BF for almost 2 and a half years. I moved to Tennessee to be with him back in June of 06. I have only seen my friends and family a handful of times since I moved. Well, every time we are in Chicago, he feels he HAS to follow me around and go everywhere I go. I wanted to see a friend of mine last night and he wouldn't let me. I had a crush on this guy almost 9 years ago, and I'm not allowed to hang out with him now. WTF? Is this normal, or should I be not happy about this? I don't still like this guy obviously, its been 9 friggen years. I moved to Tn, left all my friends and family, and it just gets to me that I can't see a friend of mine that I've known for 10 years because I had a crush on him 9 years ago. We never even did anything, not even kissed. Just makes no sense, because at this point, hes just a long time friend, and it pisses me off that I can't hang out with him. Any advice?