Alright, about a week ago I went to Bi-Lo to pick up some snacks while the bf (Rob) was at classes. When I got there, some kid was outside, asking if I put a lift kit on my car (WTF?) and stuff, and then started telling me about his car (which was bullshit. There was no 389 in a 3rd gen Camaro), his ex-gf who liked cars, etc. He asked how old I was, then said "I'm 20, we'll be perfect together." After that statement I flat out told him that I live with Rob and we're very serious about our relationship. He said Rob was a lucky guy and that if I ever stopped talking to him, I should come down to Bi-Lo and let him know, then followed me inside and said he hoped to see me soon. I told Rob about it later, and we had a laugh about it, figuring it was over, and how we thought it was funny he was making shit up about a car to impress me. Last night I went to pick up some food again, and avoided the guy when I saw him there because I didnt feel like having to deal with more crap. As I was waiting in line for a register he opened one up for just ME, calling me "Gorgeous" and "Doll" and whatnot, then told me he probably wouldnt be working there anymore b/c he had some other job lined up. That was a relief to hear, and then he writes his number down telling me to give him a call sometime "just in case". Well Rob came home from class about an hour later and I told him about it - and this time he decided not to just sit & laugh since the kid does not comprehend what I'm telling him and figured if HE went there, maybe he'd start to get it. He took the paper off the top of the garbage pile and drove back to the Bi-Lo. He didnt want to start anything, so he just told the kid he could have his number back and walked away. The guy asked him if there was a problem, and Rob told him that I'm his girlfriend and he needs to lay off me and leave me alone when I come in. Then the kid started stuttering and trying to turn everything around on ME, saying I'M the one who comes in and is acting all nice & flirty and shit, which is total bull - I was even avoiding him this last time. Rob told me next time I go in if it happens again he'll be looking forward to talking to a manager about it. Now I'm not sure I even want to go back to the Bi-Lo for awhile, even though its conveinient, being a ½ mile down the street from where we live. I've already bluntly stated the fact I'm not interested. I'm hoping all is over now, but what do you do if the person just doesnt get it? And does the damn "drama" EVER END?!?