Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Falconer, Jan 4, 2010.
Ha, tricked you there with that wording.
Poll choices coming.
I voted "I'm male - I love eating pussy." I really would feel like I was missing out and would most likely end up cheating with someone who did enjoy receiving oral sex.
Well, actually I wouldn't cheat, because I wouldn't date someone who didn't like getting oral sex in the first place cuz I'd go nuts in the meantime.
If a guy I'm dating didn't like it it wouldn't really bother me, I would just find other things he did like
I'm definitely in the middle. I enjoy it, but i could live without it.
so i didn't vote at all
Oh man, I will update this in a few months
Girl im 'seeing' mentioned she doesnt like receiving oral sex
Chances are it's probably because:
a) She's got some weird body issue (afraid it will smell, possibly cuz 1) she's paranoid or 2) some asshole guy told her that)
b) She's never had it done properly
a1) is easy to fix
a2) is hard to fix (women are sometimes obsessed with what an ex (whose opinion should now carry zero weight) said)
b) is easy to fix
Good luck dude!
Have an opinion, bro
I didn't think there would be anyone in the middle so I didn't include those poll choices.
I'd also be worried about if I was dating someone and I never got to do it, that my skills would deteriorate so that when I started dating someone better I wouldn't be as good at it anymore.
Then again, maybe it's like riding a bicycle
Falc, you should have put a middle option because I didn't vote either.
Male here and wouldn't care.
the second option is the exact thing i thought when i saw your thread! lol
option c: she just has such mind blowing vaginal o's that oral seems kinda trifling.
It's about what YOU want to do to the woman.
This was the deal in my last situation. She just wanted to fuck always, wasn't in to foreplay much. Worked for me.
doesnt sound like thats what you were talking about.
I was explaining probably causes as to why a chick would say that she's not into it.
I agree that a middle option would have been nice. I voted for "yes" though. As much as I would prefer dating someone who enjoyed receiving oral, I do not believe it is a deal breaker for me.
I didn't vote. I don't LOVE eating pussy, I just like pleasuring her. I don't mind eating a girl out when she's nice and clean but after a long day of work and shit? Yikes
Just learn to play a musical instrument or something. It'll keep your tongue limber
I wouldn't be able to date someone I couldn't go down on, but I'm pretty completely "meh" about it being done to me
I dated a guy who disliked it. It was a bummer because I like giving them and feel I give a hell of a blowjob, but they just did nothing for him (pretty sure he desensitized himself with way too much masturbating) Honestly though, I wouldn't say I crave giving head every day of the week, and wouldn't cry and dump a guy over him not wanting them Also wouldn't necessarily go "Hallelujah!"
So I can't answer either poll option for women.
the girl im dating wouldnt let me eat her out for a good 3 months
would always stop me when i moved my face down there
then one day i just started kissing her thighs up and i guess she was too horny to notice and bam
now she loves it
I love eating pussy, but I would rather have the option of
"I dig eating pussy alot but if she didn't like receiving it often I wouldn't mind"
That's a concern of mine because I'm the same place and it would be unfortunate for a possible breakup because of something like this.
Same thing here. We both enjoy it, just aren't obsessed with getting it and focus on other things....
I'm going to say, based on the amount of women I've known in my life who were adamant about hating giving BJ's, that you will be fine. Though if you dislike getting them due to desensitizing yourself from whacking it you need to work on that for yourself anyway.
my ex wasn't into it, which sucked for me but it wasn't worth dumping her over. plus I think she'd grow to like it (inexperienced in the area as opposed to tried it, didn't like it)