"I saw the movie 'I Love You Man', and I swear that movie is based off of my life". Hello all. I am a long time poster here, for this post, I rather keep my identity unknown. I do have a few old-college friends that post here. So I find myself 2 years out of college living at home, where I do not have any friends anymore. I live in central, NJ. All my friends I made, are from college. And as it does with post-college, we have all drifted from girlfriends, and jobs. I myself broke up with my long time girlfriend right at the end of college, it left me with little friend wise. I now find my weekends for the most part, very boring. I do have some friends still, do not get me wrong. But they are spread across the jersey shore, which is a good 45 minutes away. And really, its a little embarrassing going out to the bar without friends, which makes it hard to meet a new girlfriend. I am not strange, I for the most part have pretty good self esteem and confidence. Typical guy, likes to fuck, likes sports, and likes making money. I'm not a bad looking dude either. As for a job, I am self-employed, and probably will be for the rest of my life. I could possible move out and rent, though I will be pulling in a decent salary this time next year. So that leaves me with the question. I no longer have parties, or classes, or dorms to meet new friends in. I do not work around people my age, nor will I in the foreseeable future. How do I create a new social circle?