Well I worked up the courage to go in and actually talk to someone at a piercing place. I explained that I was interested in getting a frenum piercing, and he gave me a bit of his professional opinion. He said that a PA or apadravya would be a better first piercing and give me more bang for the buck. That a frenum is more decorational than functional. I guess I just liked the frenum better, but this has me thinking a bit. The other two just look a lot more painful as well as not as aesthetically pleasing. Any opinions or experiences?