problems making a move

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Casino, Sep 3, 2007.

  1. Casino

    Casino Guest

    I know I have another thread about the lip question, but heres another question. I'm not good with the women, the girl I got with was easy.

    The problem is, I don't know how or when to make the move. Like I invited this girl up to my dorm to drink, just the 2 of us and we came up and drank. I know your thinking, its just the 2 of u in ur dorm, alone, drinking, thats the perfect opportunity. But I'm so stupid and worried about trying too soon and risk fucking it up. So we were sitting there, should I should have just went and kissed her? Because I didn't. She made the first move and thats what got it started. I know I'm a bitch for that, but thats why I'm making this thread, so please just give advice and now complain about how I'm a bitch for this.

    The problem is, I don't know when the make the move and how to.
  2. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

    Jun 17, 2004
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    If a girl who is not in your immediate social circle isolates with you, and you have not given off asexual/chode vibes (that is, if she thinks you're a normal guy and not her girlfriend) she wants you to escalate.

    The problem is that you're looking at the kiss as a "move." You should be escalating physical contact with her the whole time (high fives and casual touches on the elbow and shoulder to french arm-in-arm promenade style, to handholding and arm around the waist) so that you are so comfortable touching each other soon enough that the kiss is no big deal. Another huge benefit of this is that at each micro-escalation, you can tell if she's uncomfortable with your advance through her body tension and facial expressions, so you can microcalibrate and throw her hand away, or push her away, or withdraw some attention to punish her for her bad behavior and make her want your touch even MORE

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