So Ive been dating this girl for about a month or two, but we arent really putting any label on it. So we arent like "together" but I'm not seeing anybody else, and neigher is she. We always had the same group of friends, and we had gone out a few times like 6 months ago but its been pretty recent that things got a little more serious. Well, recently I've been feeling differently towards her. She is the kind of girl that isnt very girly, shes not mushy, shes not romantic, shes not emotional, she is like a guy in essence. I liked all that about her at first, but now its getting old. With girls, Im used to her being the romantic one and loving it when I would do cute things, or say sweet stuff but this girl is different. Im actually afraid to do sweet things for her because honestly, she might laugh at me. I feel like the woman in the relationship, I WANT her to tell me im cute for complementing her, I want her to turn red when I make her dinner unexpected but I cant even do those things without fear. I also feel differently when I'm around her, its almost like I'm hanging out with a guy friend. The other night I planned a date for us and I planned it to be all romantic. We went to dinner at montgomery inn( fantastic ribs!!!) but it just was "off." I was excited about it all day, I got my haircut and got dressed up, but it was just not how I imagined it. With her, sex is really just sex, its not emotional at all. She wants to do it all the time, but I just dont enjoy it all that much because there is no real "fire" to it. Its never passionate, hot sex. We never are in bed and it just happens. Its more along the lines of her saying "lets fuck" or "wanna do it" and I'll agree or disagree. My question to the Vag is, am I being a bitch about it? Are my expectations of the relationship to high? Am I looking for a "fairy tale" relationship that obviously doesnt exist?