Hey there. I've never really visited this forum, well never really posted, I've lurked from time to time but anyway... I've been talking to the girl I'm seeing about anal. And the other night she tells me she's willing to try it out. Well I knew not to use KY, but didn't know what to use instead, so we just kinda put it off for that night. I've put a finger or two in there on previous occasions and she had liked it sometimes, sometimes not so much. But we never really used any lubricant, just natural "juices". I don't want to hurt her. I want it to be as enjoyable for her as possible. I know it's probably going to hurt the first time. But with proper lube and preperation, it should be less painful, correct? Well anyway, I was wondering if you guys could lead me in the right direction for proper anal lubricants, and preperation so it is enjoyable for both her and I.