Ok we've been together for about 11 months.....off and on for a period of 3-4 months (mostly off during that time). This is both of our first relationships (22 her, 23 me) and basically it boils down to this. She keeps telling me I don't make time for her. This has been long distance (opposite side of US) and then about a 2 hour drive, and now she is out of country. When she was about 2 hrs away I would go to see her most every weekend and we'd spend time together. We are awesome together in person and if we fight we get over it right then. The distance seems to be the big issue. When I go to hang out with friends she says " you've been with them for 3 hours and not even tried to contact me when you knew i was upset". A month or so ago she said she was breaking up with me but somehow we ended up doing a thing were for 30 days I am home by 10 o'clock...she checks to make sure i'm home. At first I went for this (as we love each other) but it didn't last very long as one time I was about 10-15 mins late getting back...even called her to let her know. But she went apeshit and said I broke the agreement for her to "trust me". I have never cheated or done anything serious to hurt her. Its as though her feelings are soooo easily hurt. Anyways......she says when she thinks of one of my friends she only thinks of bad things in her life......and pretty much made me choose between him and her. So yesterday he was passing through town and I hung out with him for about 3-4 hrs and I got the " you didn't even contact me when u knew i was upset"...her being upset about me hanging out with him. He's not a bad guy she just doesn't like him. So basically she says "it's over" and she will never contact me again and tells me to do the same. Then all night and this morning she keeps calling and telling me why I'm such a shitty person......then ends up on the I'm killing myself because of you. She has told me before I'm the only one she'll ever be with (which is probably true....we were both virgins our first time).....and has told me that "she is all mine and no one else's"....which is 100% true but now she has gone into this Suicide mode.... now that we are broken up she has "nothing to live for" and is going to kill herself so I will know the pain she has gone through and she can rest in peace----according to her. She has said this before so I'm starting to think its a bluff but I'm almost scared she might do it as she's in another country by herself for 2 more months and has lived away from her family throuhout college. Basically I ended up saying stop trying to control me.....and if you care and love me (like she says) you will respect my friends and in turn you will get all you ever wanted. She isn't picking up my calls right now but I know through going to her Voicemail etc. she is still alive and kicking. What the hell do I do here? I do love her and maybe I don't give her all the attention she needs but I haven't done anything to harm her emotionally like she acts. If it matters she is successful, has a great job, and is smart. Just freaking pscho when it comes to this relationship! Should I stop calling her to see if she's OK...since she doesn't answer.....and just hope that if she really cares she will come back? Don't really know how to handle this.