LOVE Question about adding somebody on facebook

[forgotmyname]

I never cared about this till now.
In short, I liked this girl last semester and we hit it off pretty decent I guess. I got her number, she asked for mine but we never spoke again. I also got her email, because we were put on the same group.

Should I add her or would it be harmful?

 

[vodkacollins]

harmful to what? to the non-existent relationship you guys have right now?

 

[forgotmyname]

harmful to what? to the non-existent relationship you guys have right now?

Who said anything about a relationship?

 

[Deborah]

Who said anything about a relationship?

lol, she meant obviously it is not harmful!

 

[forgotmyname]

lol, she meant obviously it is not harmful!

Oh ok. I meant if it is going to look stalkerish from my side. I am just going to add her and that's it.

 

[vodkacollins]

Who said anything about a relationship?

a friendship is a type of relationship too. if you guys are not even speaking, then you have no relationship of any time. therefore, not harmful to anything

 

[Smeghead]

It's not a big deal. Go for it.

 

[Deborah]

Oh ok. I meant if it is going to look stalkerish from my side. I am just going to add her and that's it.

yeah, if she is interested in you she'll add you otherwise she rejects you. I don't thing that is a big deal.

 

[forgotmyname]

It's not a big deal. Go for it.

Yep, already did.

 

[Dahlia]

I'm in college, and most people that you randomly meet add each other, it adds to a bigger friend base.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

harmful to what? to the non-existent relationship you guys have right now?

 

[Original]

I'm in college, and most people that you randomly meet add each other, it adds to a bigger friend base.

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there's plenty of girls who i'll add and lose interest and never say one word too.. same with girls who add me. it's not creepy

 

[BrinkofSanity]

serious? who cares? the girl, as you stated, never even talks to you.

worst case scenario she ignores you. best case you start to chat.

 

[forgotmyname]

Oh lookie, always doing the same shit.

 

[Ideotique]

add her. Join group enough with the poking already, lets fuck, then poke her

She´ll get the message.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

Oh lookie, always doing the same shit.

Oh lookie, always making the same common sense thread Come on man, you really need to make a thread about whether you should add a girl on facebook? How do you get through life with these kinds of questions?

 

[Ideotique]

Oh lookie, always making the same common snese thread Come on man, you really need to make a thread about whether you should add a girl on facebook? How do you get through life with these kinds of questions?

For fucks sake. You are asking whether you should add a girl on facebook.

Just examine that in isolation and report back on why you may be getting laughed at.

 

[Deleted member 75668]

who gives a fuck what happens. you never see or talk to her now, so what do you have to lose?

 

[forgotmyname]

Oh lookie, always making the same common snese thread Come on man, you really need to make a thread about whether you should add a girl on facebook? How do you get through life with these kinds of questions?

I just asked a simple question, and you people are getting mad serious about it.

 

[forgotmyname]

For fucks sake. You are asking whether you should add a girl on facebook.

Just examine that in isolation and report back on why you may be getting laughed at.

Dude you are an idiot.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

I just asked a simple question, and you people are getting mad serious about it.

Yes, it's very obvious how dead serious we were in this thread

 

[forgotmyname]

Yes, it's very obvious how dead serious we were in this thread

http://forums.offtopic.com/showpost.php?p=106726016&postcount=16

 

[tqpolo]

The question is why did you never call her?

 

[forgotmyname]

The question is why did you never call her?

I have no job and no money.

 

[scholar]

I have no job and no money.

Then if she does happen to be interested in you, she's obviously scraping the bottom of the fucking barrel.

1. No job.
2. No money.
3. No balls to add a girl on facebook!

Just man the fuck up and do it! It's not even like you're approaching a stranger for the first time.