my ex boyfriend and i just recently stopped talkin for good for the most part and hanging out as well. we've been broken up for quite sometime but we had some mutual friends. one day i accidentally left a few items over at our friends' apartment who just recently moved and gave my ex my stuff to return to me. no matter how much he protests talking to me whether through text or on the phone, he says he'll give me back my stuff so the question is: if he wants me out of his life so much, why doesn't he just give me my stuff back instead of having it for over a month. i mean if he really didn't wanna see me or talk to me and that is why he won't return it, why not just leave it on the doorstep?