Discussion in 'On Topic' started by hatedbyall, Feb 16, 2006.
why do women always think a guy is just wanting sex
Because men think from their little head.
because women aren't men and they don't know that we have feelings too....
Yeah. Quite true. Just because the alpha male doesn't show emotions doesn't mean that all of us don't have them. Anyone else agree with me there?
Very true. But still those alpha males get all the girls anyway. Remmeber nice guys finish last. I used to be real nice until it finally hit me nice guys do finish last. Hence, women creating another one of those "asshole guys" just looking for sex. Who's to blame? Themeselves.
As for the first question.. because most of the guys they give a chance they quickly realize he's only in it for sex. And for most of the time it's true.
First reply@ unfair assumption too.
We, being human, tend to believe what we've experienced several times over to be true. (Not that it always IS, but that's the tendency.)
A lot or most of them do it because they don't want to get screwed over, which is unavoidable. But as much as there are guys that have feelings there's as much women that know and go for the nice guys.
<<<<<<<<<like this one.
Im not willing to become an asshole just because girls pursuede that, if girls want to stay with guys that abuse them that's their problem not mine.
Its not about being abusive its about being alpha. Assholes don't let people push them around, make their own decisions, and they are challenging. Thats whats attractive about em to women, not the fact that they are abusive.
What attracts all people is confidence. You don't need to be an asshole to win social situations or prevent people from pushing you around, you just need a stable backbone, sturdy spine, etc. Add to that a sense of humor, and the only people who don't like you are the ones who find you physically unattractive.
It's hard for women to make me an asshole b/c I already am unless I like them, and I don't listen to what others say about me.I have been through to many women that I "loved" and got my "heart" broken so I don't really care most of the time, but thanks for the comments y'all