ya ya ya, I am not a regular on the FS part of the Spice area, but I do come thru and lurk a lil. Anyway, I am in Kuwait, and will be coming home in March. No sex for 5 months... What a torture that is. But being that i am in a relationship and totally monogamous, except for with my hand, I know I am going to be ready to go. We talked on yahoo earlier, before she had to go to bed, and she is getting really "anxious" for me to get home. I wanted to get some people to testify to something I was thinking of purchasing. Nothing all exotic and crazy, but some small addition to our bedroom. I went to www.liberator.com and checked out some of their bedroom furniture, specifically the wedge and ramp. Has anyone ever tried these?! Also, I am looking at the escape, because we want to go camping and spend time outdoors when I get home. It being waterproof is huge, just because well she is a squirter! Friggin love that about her! Anyway, any views?