So my grandmother is in a hospice outside of Atlanta (about three hours away from me) and my mom went there Saturday night because they gave her 24hrs. Well..my mom is still there and my grandmother is still alive and it's now Tuesday. My mom keeps telling me not to come down and she doesn't need anything but I know my mom and she wouldn't tell me if she did. Work already said if I need to take off I can but I don't know what to do. Do I respect her wishes and hope that she would call me if she needs me or do I pack her a bag and hit the road?