Trying friends with an ex. She and I broke up in Jan., finally ended contact for a while in April, re-initiated contact in July, been friendly ever since. Did end up fingering her and almost fucked her until she remembered she had a bf . Anyway, she's fucking nuts and not that attractive, and honestly there's not much of me that wants to date her again. I'm not jealous that she has a new bf that she's fucking, mostly because I know how fucking nuts she is about sex. anyway, we're trying being friends. She had an aunt die that she was close to and I helped her through it (her bf is five hours away, so she wanted the guy that could hug her...whore). Gave her back rubs and shit when she was having a hard time. She helped me once, when I had a nasty car wreck. and I was appreciative. however over the course of dating her I made time for her, helped out when I could, just to constantly get nothing in return. I'd hoped friendship with her would be different. No. However I'm different in the fact I don't tolerate it anymore. It amazes me she can actually continue to take and take and take from people and not give anything back. Just a rant to get it off my chest.