went out with this old friend of mine (22) for a beer. she had just gotten out of a 3 yr relationship so I wasn't thinking it was going to go anywhere - dont want to be a rebound guy. turns out we had a really good talk and so I asked her out again. we went to the movies and after, I walked her to her car and just told her straight out I'd like to see her again on a more frequent basis. for some reason I was very obviously nervous while telling her this and when I went in for the kiss (after she said it'd be cool if we saw each other more), she was totally not expecting it and it ended up being a kiss halfway on the cheeks and halfway on the lips, with our eyes open. she was obviously surprised and shy about it so I just went in for another and it went better, but it was still kind of awkward. we had another date and again I pushed for us to go further and again she followed but seemed uncertain. now im seeing her again tonight. i gave her a way out for tonight after thinking about it, in case she was feeling it was too fast, but she insisted i come anyway. this brings me to my question, fello OT'ers. should I have a talk with her to clear things out, or will that make it seem like im insecure? ive tried to back off and she came running ("i cant wait to see you tonight" etc.), so I think I might just keep being sort of indifferent and let her make the moves. on the other hand, our past dates have been kind of awkward so a talk could clear those things out. rate my failure so far and help determine appropriate course of action.