Ok, I met this girl at a new job I started in January. We got along great we joked around all day at work. I asked her out a couple of times and she would say yes. But everytime the day would come something always came up and she had to cancel on me. Later on I found out she had a girlfriend and we talked about it, she said she was confused and she didnt know if she was a lesbian and that she was having a lot of problems at home with her family and she was always there and made her feel good. They broke up one day and me and her started kind of going out, but a week into it the got back together. We decided we would stay friends and be cool, but we kept on messing around after work and whenever her girlfriend was at work. It even got to the point that she would say she worked at her second job but me and her would just chill at my place the whole time until she supposedly got off. The problem is I actually started falling for her and she told me she loved me. But her girlfriend is extremely jelous and abusive, and whenver she tries to break up the girlfriend tells her shes going to start drinking and doing drugs and they get back together cause the girl I like has a big heart and cares for other people a lot. The worst part is they live together so its not like they can say thats it and go their seperate ways. I mean the living arrangemets are complicated cause her family thinks they are just friends and nothing else. But I need help in deciding what to do. should I just let it keep going the way it is or just let it go?