Ugh. I broke it off with my wife last month, and it's been rough. I was OK until this monday when she told me she would like to see my casually once in a while when I move down to Orlando. This started a whole flood of doubt, regret and led to depression. Although I am thrilled with the idea of hopefully working things out over time as separate people, I don't like the whole uncertainty of it all. I still love and care for her, but I know we both need to grow as individuals. I'm honestly scared that she's going to find somebody while I'm going to be alone and yearning for the good things we had together. Wow. That was kind of theraputic.