I've been going out with a girl for about 4 months now who I find is smart, attractive and awesome, we get on very well. She has alot of guy freinds who she works with etc and is quite a flirt by nature, I've never really liked this and have told her but hey what can you do. We were on the phone tonight and I was joking about her flirting nature and it went pretty serious, like I was ''Putting pressure on her'' and not allowing her to be friends with who she wants. It was quite unexpected, but not as unexpected as her proposal to call the relationship off 5 minutes later for this very reason. I dug deep pressuring her for the real reason for this sudden request, and she spilled that she ended up kissing her ex while away with her job. I'm mentally strong, and was pissed off (this was only an hour ago) but kept my calm and told her I really liked her and if she could reassure me that it meant nothing we could continue. She confirmed 100% that the ex thing won't happen that she was drunk etc but does not know what she want. I go away on holiday tomorrow, and we've agreed to stay together while she thinks on what she wants and when I return we'll talk. Am I being calm about this OT? Or should I have kicked her to the curb? I like her so much, and if it was only a kiss I feel we're losing out to a greater thing. One thing is for sure, I'm going to hunt this faggot down and drob bombs all over his face.