So, you've just recently started dating someone (in my case, a woman), and everything seems to be progressing nicely. What are some of your expectations as time moves on. For me, I've been dating someone for a little over a month now. It's been a great month, and I'm really starting to like this woman. Yet, sometimes I have mixed feelings about everything. At times, I also seem to get mixed signals from this woman. Starting at week two, we've pretty much talked to each other everyday. Sometimes I call her, other times she'll call me. Sometimes we talk multiple times a day. It's been quite a while since I've met a girl whom I can stand to talk to more than a couple times a week. I find myself wanting to know how her day has been. We see each other a couple times a week, though lately with everything she has going on, I feel like she's becoming a bit more distant. She just recently got out of a very long term relationship that didn't end too well. She's still having to deal with some emotional issues caused by her ex. She tells me she's not ready for any type of serious relationship right now, though I'm pretty sure I'm the only guy she's with right now. I want to be there for her, yet am I being selfish for wanting to push things further too quickly? She tells me she likes me too, and that she's not going anywhere. I'm not really sure what I want at this point. I'm just confused, and I'm afraid that I'm just the "safe" guy, and not someone that she really wants to be with. We're taking it slow physically, but it just seems to be progressing a bit too slowly. I can't help but think that I'm just being used. It's just a hard feeling for me to explain.