i have been going out with a girl for about 3 months and at first it was going great. however, recently it has gotten dull. i am losing the attraction and so is she. we have fallen into the same habits and we dont do anythin interesting.. alot of it is my fault i usually dont plan things out and we havent done anything fun together in a while. she is aways working or i am working and we end up barely seeing each other. i really like her but i think i need to step it up. she tells me tat i am distant sometimes which i tend to be. i dont like to get close to people and she says i should be more open. i am at lost with that cause i dont know how or what to do. i keep getting pissed because i know this relationship could be better but i tend to hold back alot.