This thread explains most of my leading situation: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3478106 Anyway, lately... since the hospital incident I've been on a rollercoaster of what do to with our relationship. At times I am really unhappy but there are other times where I really enjoy what we have. When I'm unhappy about everything (She went to a psychotherapist played down everything and was not upfront about everything then blamed him for not helping her, all after I explained on many occasions how it works during sessions to really get anywhere) that was a huge blow to me and a big turnoff. But what I keep sticking myself into it because shes a great caring person to hang around and our sex is amazing. But I explain things in great detail making sure that she understands when I try to help her out, and put alot of effort and care into it. For her just to repeat her actions over and over. She is very dependant, which scares me alot. I'm having a hard time collaborating my feelings on this. Its something I'm really not good at conveying. We have alot of fun with each other and understand each other well (I can read her quite accurately). Were reaching 9 months in our relationship this week, and I don't know how I will reflect on my decision now on whether I should break up with her or not. I realize this is not coherent at all, but I'm trying to figure it out in my mind let alone write it down. Basically if I do break up with her, I know her patterns for that type of stuff and don't think I would ever want to get back with her. Would I be making a mistake doing that? Cliffs: I'm unhappy in the relationship currently, but not sure if breaking up would be the decision I want to make. Is it worth sticking out or not? Am I just getting cold feet cause of the length of time? I don't know.