I met this gal a few months ago and I love her. However there is this other guy that has been hitting on her too. I think she loves the 2 of us. The other guy is much hotter than I am but has not yet commited to her. I knew that if I didnt make a move soon I would lose her forever so I asked her tonight to be my girlfriend. I told her I saw a future with her and we talked about kids and where we were going to live and stuff. She said she would think about it. We cuddled for a short while but she didnt kiss me. I told her that if she choose me over the other guy, she should call me on friday to let me know. If I didnt get her call I would know that she had picked the other guy over me and that I would respect her decision and not contact her any more to minimize the hurt.(I needed to make a move so I didnt get stuck in the friend zone forever!) She walked me to my car and gave me a hug. I will be txting her every morning and night this week to remind her that I love her. Thats my story sigh dont know what advice I can use but I guess i needed to vent more than anything. Thanks for listening!