A couple of months ago there was something going on that made me curious to check my gf's texts. I know I'm completely wrong for doing so, but while doing so I saw texts about "I wish I hadn't got back with [insert my name]". It kinda made me feel bad, but I figured we were just having a bad day so I let it go...but at the same time it made me curious to see if this is a recurring theme, so I continued to check her texts when I could. Well, a couple weeks later she made a backhanded insult about me via text "[insert my name] has alot of problems" Just now I checked again and she's talking about how she's fed up with me and tries to focus on other parts of her life to make herself happy. I have no idea where this comes from. We've been together for 2.5 years, and sure we've had a few problems, but nothing major. Especially not over the last couple of months, I mean, I've been basically supporting her financially(which is really pissing me off when I see the shit she's telling others) cuz she's had some problems at work. She never expresses these feelings to my face. I even tried to bring it up without mentioning reading the texts and all she said was "if I had any problems you would know." Well, obviously if it wasn't for my nosiness, I wouldn't. I don't know what to do. I'm really angry and want to work it out. One of my fears has been getting stuck in a lame duck relationship where one party wants out but continues on for whatever reason(financially, don't want change, don't want to hurt someone, etc) But at the same time, I have a feeling after I bring up the fact that I read her texts that I'm not even going to have a chance to work it out(and she has every right to be pissed about it, I did invade her privacy). Advice please?