this post might be some ramblings and might not make much sense but i just need to get somethings off my chest first off i'm not religious and if any i would be buddhist. the girl i was dating is christian and supposedly is one of those very churchy girls. it didnt come up as an issue when we first met. we just briefly chatted about it. we met back in march 07 and things progressed pretty quickly but at this time she didn't really go to church. she would choose to hang out with me on sundays instead and only go to church about once a month. in early 08 she wanted to go to church again like real badly and started to say how she can't believe that she put me before God and all that stuff. she started going to church every sunday and then started going to bible study. And a month or 2 ago started saying she wanted to go on missions and retreats and stuff. Things were also getting kind of serious and she was graduating in May. She tells me that theres no way she could marry me because i'm not christian and that theres no real point in dating anymore. A week ago she dumped me after her last final and tells me shes going to hawaii for a month and then overseas to teach english for a year. tells me that she is being selfish now since she wasnt when she was with me. thats why she put me before god. she doesnt want to have to consider me when making her next decisions in life. I mean i'm all for people doing their own thing but what was the purpose of getting into a serious relationship knowing in the end she couldnt be with me. i just feel like crap since i really cared about and liked this girl and put forth effort. I understand its only been a year but it's just the religion thing that sucks since theres not much that can be done. cliffs: girl is christian. gets in a serious relationship with me. a year goes by. breaks up with me because theres no point in dating me anymore since she would never marry a non christian. what was the point of making it serious? I just got screwed in the end.