I talked to a married friend of mine today who told me that her husband will have her give him oral sex then immediately fall asleep afterwards, without taking care of her. I've had this happen to me a few times, but it's always because it's late and my boyfriends tired (I hope ). She told me the last time this happened he agreed that after she preformed for him he'd smoke a cigarette and then get back in the mood. Even though they had discussed it before hand it didn't happen that way, he simply got in bed turned away and went to sleep. Any suggestions? I was at a loss.