I'm basically my roommate's best friend. We've lived together for a few years. Recently she and her fiance became complete slobs and our relationship is wounded. They're going to Napa for the wedding, then hanging out for a week. I do not want to go because I'll be the only single person there with 5 groups of couples. Frankly I don't want to spend $1500 on a week there to hang out with a bunch of married people. If I could get a date for the wedding, I'd be happy to go. Its my fault because I could not get a date, but I'm really thinking about telling them both that I do not want to go. I'm going to be miserable there either with the couples or alone.