Guys do yourselves a favor and date high self esteem women. You'll be much happier. Today's tip: One of the ways to tell if your girlfriend is high self esteem? Symptom A: Your girlfriend is being a bitch and giving you drama. We've known for some time that the likely cause is that she is horny. This is caused by something called 'Evolutionary Detector' and is beyond the scope of this post. How to fix: Duh. She's horny. Symptom B: Your girlfriend is dressing hot, very touchy/feely, mentions sex in any way (even jokingly or negatively... doesn't matter) and is actively trying to seduce you (likely not agressively... due to ASD). She is horny. How to fix: Duh. She's horny. Which of these girls is more likely to be high self esteem?