Well the thing is I have been seeing this girl for about 2 months and we haven't had that much time alone but the times we have had it's been weird. Mind you she is in high school (finishing up) and I'm in college.... but that shouldn't really matter if two people like each other. I never made a move on her though which was stupid on my part because I've made moves with girls WAY before I should have in the past. But the reason is I haven't liked them as much as her. I guess I was just trying to be a gentleman and wait for the perfect time, but apparently she didn't want to wait so she basically broke things off giving me a bullshit excuse that "You are in college, i'm in high school it's not going to work out". I mean it doesn't matter if it does or doesn't work out, we never gave it the chance you know? I've shown that I have been down lately to my friends and depression is starting to get to me (sort of) and one of my friends was on my computer when I was in the shower last night. WELL, she somehow decided to IM me and my shit was still up so since her last name was in the screen name, he knew it was her. He started to talk shit on her and say "You did my boy dirty" ... When I came out of the shower he showed me the conversation and she said somethin like "Your boy should have stepped his game up and kissed me". My question is... does it really matter when I could have kissed her? If you like someone and they know it wouldn't they wait and not just want to break it up over something like a kiss? I actually have been planning on taking her to a nice dinner w/ a movie afterwards and make some moves then but she just flaked out, so I guess it was kind of her fault. I told her when she broke it off that the college vs. high school thing was ridiculous and if you really liked someone you'd make time for each other. I sent her a message telling her how I really feel, so hopefully when she checks it she'll let me know and I'll post an update in this thread. Basically it stated how much I cared about her and respected her over any other girl and I didn't want to just "play" her like I have in the past played other girls just for the fact of "getting some". I don't know what to do and not even sure what I'm asking, I just sort of needed to vent.